What Love Language Do You Speak?
How you give it is rarely how you want it back, which is the whole trouble and explains more arguments than either of you thinks. Twelve questions about sick days, cancelled plans, the compliment that lands and the fastest way to hurt your feelings. Five answers at the end, each with the way it goes wrong when nobody says it out loud. Best taken by two people separately, and then compared, carefully.
QUESTION 1 OF 12
What instantly makes you feel loved?
- Somebody telling you, specifically, what they appreciate about you.
- Somebody dropping everything simply to be with you.
- Somebody handling it before you even had to ask.
- A hug that lasts a few seconds longer than expected.
- Somebody turning up with the exact thing you mentioned once.
Pick one and you're already started.
5 ways this can go
Field guideWords of Affirmation
Live for a well-timed compliment? That's Words of Affirmation energy.
Quality Time
Would rather have someone's full attention than their money? You might be Quality Time.
Acts of Service
Notice who does the dishes before anyone says thank you? Acts of Service, obviously.
Receiving Gifts
It's the proof somebody thought of you, not the price? That's Receiving Gifts.
Physical Touch
Communicate best with a hug? Physical Touch, through and through.
How it works
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Answer honestly
There are no wrong answers — go with your gut on each question.
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