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How do you let people know you want attention?
Loudly. Repeatedly. Until it works.
You just sit near them. That is usually enough.
You don't. They will notice eventually, or they won't.
You get directly into their lap, invited or otherwise.
Pick your ideal Saturday:
Out. Climbing something. Slightly out of your depth.
Wherever your person is, all day, not talking much.
Home, quiet, and nobody arriving unannounced.
Whatever turns up. You will make something of it.
A stranger arrives in your space. You:
Announce your displeasure immediately, and often.
Watch from a distance. You will decide later. Possibly never.
Investigate them thoroughly, at speed, from above.
Leave the room, and reappear once they have gone.
What is your love language?
Quiet, steady presence. Just being near you.
Physical contact, at all times, no exceptions.
Going completely limp in the arms of whoever picked you up.
Turning up. Reliably. For years.
Pick your biggest personality trait:
Dramatic, and unapologetically so.
Affectionate to the point of being quite a lot.
Energetic in a way that has broken things.
Adaptable. You have landed on your feet more than once.
How do you handle being ignored?
You wait patiently nearby until it stops.
Honestly, it is something of a relief.
You go and lie down on the thing they are using.
You take it personally, and quietly, for some time.
Your role in the friend group:
The one who says exactly what they think, loudly.
The calm, steady one everybody gravitates towards.
The one who suggests the thing that gets everyone in trouble.
The one who is happiest simply being included.
Pick a flaw you will actually admit to:
You come across as cold, even when you are not.
You have no sense of personal boundaries whatsoever.
You disappear when it gets loud, and call that a preference.
You never quite believe that it will keep being fine.
Somebody you love has had a terrible day. You:
Tell them, at length, how unacceptable all of it is.
Get physically on top of them until it improves.
Go where they are and stay there, without commentary.
Watch them from the far side of the room, worrying.
What you need from a home:
Space, and everybody in it more or less within view.
A routine, and a door you can be on the other side of.
Height, and something to do, or you will invent something.
Warmth, food, and not too many questions.
What would people honestly say about you?
"Dramatic, but somehow impossible not to love."
"Enormous presence, softest heart."
"Elegant, and does not care what you think."
"Never respected a boundary. We love them anyway."
The thing you would want said about you in the end:
"Never once sat still, and never once was boring."
"Trusted everybody, and was mostly right to."
"Chose one person, and chose extremely well."
"Came from nothing, and was the best one in the house."
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